Domestic Violence Protective Orders (DVPOs)
Alright, let’s break this down in plain terms. A DVPO—short for a Domestic Violence Protective Order—is basically a legal document from a North Carolina judge telling an abuser to stop all forms of abuse, harassment, or contact with the person they’ve been hurting. Think of it like a shield you can hold up that’s backed by the court and enforced by law enforcement officers.
Now, here in North Carolina, you might hear folks call this a “50B Order.” That’s just the official statute number it falls under. If you’re a victim of domestic violence—maybe a partner, spouse, family member, or someone you live with has been harming you physically, threatening you, or intimidating you—this order is one way to get the law on your side, you know?
How It Works:
- Filing: You, as the victim, can go down to the courthouse and file for a DVPO. You don’t need a lawyer to do this. The clerk of court should have the necessary paperwork and can guide you through it, so don’t be shy about asking questions. It’s free to file.
- Emergency Order: If you’re in immediate danger, the judge can give you what’s called an “ex parte” order right on the spot (the same day you file). This is a temporary, short-term protective order until there’s a full hearing. This step helps you get protection fast when you need it.
- Full Hearing: Within about 10 days, you’ll have a court hearing. During this hearing, the judge listens to both sides. If the judge agrees that you need ongoing protection, you’ll get a full order—usually lasting up to a year—that can be renewed if necessary.
What It Can Do:
- It can order the abuser to stay away from you, your home, your workplace, or any place you frequently go.
- It might give you temporary custody of your kids, if you share them with the abuser, and set visitation rules to keep everyone safe.
- It can prevent the abuser from owning or buying firearms.
- If the abuser violates the order, they can be arrested. It’s not just a piece of paper—it has teeth.
Resources and Support:
- Law Enforcement: Don’t hesitate to call the police if the order is broken. Officers are trained to take DVPO violations seriously.
- Domestic Violence Shelters: Many communities have safe houses or shelters. They can provide a temporary place to stay, resources, and emotional support.
- Hotlines and Advocacy Groups: In North Carolina, organizations like the North Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence can connect you with hotlines, counseling, or legal aid. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE) is always an option too.
Remember:
A DVPO is a legal tool meant to increase your safety and hold abusers accountable. Getting one doesn’t mean you have to handle this alone. Court staff, advocates, and law enforcement are there to guide you through the process and help you stay safe. It might feel intimidating at first—understandable, considering what you’ve been through—but it’s a step many survivors have taken to reclaim their sense of security and well-being.
If you’re considering this, reach out. Whether it’s to a trusted friend, a shelter, the court clerk, or a police officer—folks want to help you get the protection and support you deserve.